Our lives are a series of goals and achievements. Some people are far more set on their goals – they have clear direction, a plan and a time line to achieve them. Some others are a little more laid back but still have goals nonetheless. Even if you don’t recognise the small goals you have, I guarantee you have at least one each day without even realising. Do the grocery shopping, see Kate for coffee, post the card to Nan… each day is made up of several small goals. Which means each day is also made up of several small achievements.
Unfortunately, a lot of us focus on the things we didn’t get done or didn’t achieve. We don’t give ourselves enough praise for what we do achieve. I am guilty of this and a little too often. We also don’t recognise our goals, I mean actually list them as being a goal. How much better would you feel if you ticked off a list of things to do in a day and looked at that list realising what you had achieved, versus just going about your daily tasks without marking them as achievements?
So this is where we come to one of my favourite things. Lists!! As I have mentioned previously, I love lists. I even love having a list of lists I need to write. They make me feel like I am organised, like I have direction and I know what I need to have done by when, as well as helping me to not feel like I have forgotten something all the time. One of my staple lists is a daily To Do List which can include everyday tasks such as sweeping the floor, doing the groceries or cooking dinner, or even fun things like catch up with Grace for coffee, research a new camper trailer to buy (yes please) or most importantly, take 30 minutes out to relax. Lists help keep us organised and help us plan our time effectively.
Daily lists can help us with our smaller goals and achievements, but what do you do when you have a big goal in mind?
For me personally I take a big goal I have, then break it up into smaller goals to achieve, and give myself a time frame. For example, one of our goals is to buy a new camper trailer for ourselves. While I would love to go out tomorrow and buy one I know this isn't the best option overall, so I have broken it into smaller pieces so my goal feels more achievable. It is quite a simple example and it looks a little something like this:
To buy our 'perfect enough for us' camper trailer
x amount of $$
- - Research camper trailers and create list of what we definitely want in, what we would like in but are willing to negotiate on, and what we absolutely do not want.
- - From this, create a budget of what we are willing to spend
- - Using our existing fortnightly budget, agree with Steve as to how much from our ‘savings’ we would like to redistribute to our ‘camper trailer’ fund.
- - From this, work out a time frame to achieve.
- - Bonus mini goal – attempt to obtain 1 overtime shift per month in order to save for camper trailer faster.
As I mentioned, this is a pretty simple example but this is how I set out all of my larger goals. Sometimes when we look at the big picture it can be overwhelming, so much to do and in such a short time. This breaks things down into smaller goals, which means as you tick them off you also have small achievements along the way. I have even used this template for how I want to set up and run this blog and what I want to achieve with it.
So in a nutshell:
- - Give yourself a daily ‘To Do’ list so each day you can see your goals and achievements
- - Praise yourself for what you achieved each day
- - For larger goals, set out a plan – give yourself clear direction, a time frame and a ‘how to’
- - Break your large goals into smaller, bite sized pieces so you can see yourself moving forward towards your goal with smaller achievements.
- - Again – give yourself praise for what you achieved.
So what are some of your goals and how are you working towards them? Do you think this template could help you achieve your goals sooner?